It Takes Two to Tango

Drawing parallels between tango dancers and the landlord-tenant and property manager relationship, we see that neglecting to understand or appreciate each other's roles can lead to a breakdown in the partnership.

Why is the Tango being mentioned in a real estate blog you ask?

Fantastic question. Allow me to explain -

The tango, often described as a dance of push and pull due to its unique dynamics and the interplay between partners, mirrors the relationship between landlords and tenants. Just as understanding the push and pull in tango enhances the connection and communication between dancers, fostering a harmonious and elegant performance, the same principles apply to the landlord-tenant relationship. The more each party understands and respects the other's role, the more seamless and harmonious their interactions become.

Much like learning the tango, where beginners often feel awkward and "ugly" in their movements, the landlord-tenant relationship also requires practice and patience to develop. Initially, misunderstandings and conflicts may arise, but with time, education, and experience, both parties can learn to navigate their roles more gracefully, improving their relationship and mitigating conflict. 

If the Landlord and tenant are dancers, in this scenario their property manager would be their instructor. The dance instructor's job is to choreograph routines for their dancers. They evaluate the performance of their dancers and provide suggestions and recommendations for improvement. A professional property manager should be well versed in the most current legislation and their effectiveness in communicating to both parties is paramount to mitigating conflict between both parties. It's their job to ensure both parties are given all the right information for each scenario, for both parties to be able to make informed decisions.

Drawing parallels between tango dancers and the landlord-tenant and property manager relationship, we see that neglecting to understand or appreciate each other's roles can lead to a breakdown in the partnership.

In Australia, with the current cost of living crisis and new legislative changes in the real estate industry, the age-old narrative of landlord versus tenant has gained more attention in the media as of late.

This sensationalist portrayal often frustrates those who strive to maintain a balanced and positive relationship between landlords and tenants. Negative stories dominate headlines, perpetuating the "us vs. them" mentality within the Australian community. This narrative, while biologically more engaging due to our inclination towards negative information, has a damaging effect on societal perceptions and behaviors. The "us vs. them" mentality often hinders effective dispute resolution, pushing both parties to see negotiations as win-lose scenarios rather than opportunities for mutual agreement. However I do not want to discount that there may be black and white instances where one party is guilty of neglecting their role but the key with this scenario is the party at fault understanding and accepting the repercussions is also an important part of the resolution process too, though pride can be a hard pill to swallow.

In dispute resolution scenarios, it is crucial to have a comprehensive understanding of each role's (landlord, tenant, and property manager) constraints and responsibilities. Educating oneself about rental laws from reliable, credible, and up-to-date resources is essential. This knowledge can help remove emotion from the scenario, allowing logic and legislation to guide more informed decisions. Maintaining a mindset focused on mutual agreements, as long as they are realistic, is key. Accepting responsibility for mistakes, though difficult, is vital in negotiations. When a party identifies and owns up to their errors, it can prevent monetary loss and preserve mental well-being. Taking ownership should be viewed as a learning and growth opportunity rather than a weakness or defeat in a dispute. Escalated disputes, often driven by pride and ego, can increase stress and be debilitating for all involved. Thus, understanding and accepting the repercussions of one's actions is not only necessary for resolution but also for fostering a more harmonious landlord-tenant relationship.

One of the most common disputes between landlords and tenants is repair and maintenance responsibilities. Preventative maintenance is key for both parties. Addressing and keeping on top of small issues early can prevent them from becoming major problems, saving money and reducing stress for both parties.

Here are some of the fundamental responsibilities of both parties. 

Landlords:

Provide a safe and livable home meeting government minimum housing standards.

Complete ongoing maintenance promptly to minimize the impact on tenants.

Update old fixtures and finishings as needed.

Ensure strong landlord insurance coverage.

Tenants:

Pay rent on time.

Take care of and maintain the property, reporting all maintenance issues promptly.

Keep the property clean and tidy (minimizes the degradation of substrates)

Avoid using the property for unlawful purposes.

When you strip their responsibilities back the transaction between both is quite simple.  Transparency and honesty are crucial for a successful landlord-tenant relationship. This is why who you choose for your managing agent is important to ensure accurate information is being communicated to each party.  In the tango a strong relationship and understanding between both dances are vital, the same principles apply to landlords and tenants. By focusing on what is within their control and working together, landlords and tenants can create a harmonious and mutually beneficial relationship if both parties are constantly working towards it.

In reality, many landlord-tenant relationships are positive and mutually beneficial. There are countless cases where landlords and tenants have maintained long-term, harmonious relationships. For instance, tenants who love the houses they rent sometimes end up purchasing them from the landlords, and there are landlord-tenant relationships that have lasted over a decade with minimal to no issues.

The key to a successful and less stressful landlord-tenant relationship lies in understanding and fulfilling respective roles and responsibilities. Just like experienced and knowledgeable tango dancers create a striking performance, tenants and landlords who are well-versed in legislation, rights, and responsibilities can mitigate stress and foster a positive relationship.